Respect your elders?
They say that age brings wisdom. They say you should respect your elders. They say children should be seen and not heard. Well, just who the hell are “they,” anyway? The idea that older equals wiser is so ridiculous that it should be laughed at, not treated as insightful.
Respect must be earned. It is not awarded when you reach a certain age. Look at the amazing decrease in racism in the last generation. The largest reason for this is that the older people with the outdated views have been dying out, and the younger people have refused to perpetuate their nonsense. Remember when you were a kid? How often were you frustrated that you weren’t taken seriously because you were “just a kid”? You knew that a lot of adults were dumb. If you’re an adult now, keep that in mind when you’re talking to someone younger. I mean, as an adult, don’t you know a lot of dumb adults?
You are no different from old people or kids in diapers. The only real difference is when you were born. Obviously kids are not mature or responsible enough to do certain things like drive, handle firearms, or make decisions about which drugs they should ingest. Many senior citizens don’t have the wits about them to do the same things. But for the most part, people are people.
I’m not advocating taking orders from children, or disregarding advice from anyone with wrinkles. However, it makes more sense to listen to someone, young or old, and then decide. If you are reading this, you were once an “irrelevant” age, and hopefully you’ll live to be an “irrelevant” age again. Let’s try to spread this idea, with the hope that the whole world will benefit.






July 31st, 2007 at 12:47 pm
Shawn, I agree. I think that the argument stands more towards respecting the position as apposed to respecting the person. In the past being older has traditionally followed the rank/position format and I think this implies that the older you are the wiser. People are resitant to change and for many people, they feel that if they out rank you in age they have the upper hand. Many hate the fact that they have a supervisor who is younger than them, it’s as if the world has done them an injustice. I believe that anyone at any age can teach you something and earn the respect of their audience, hell my daughter who is six has earned my respect. Unfortunately in many cases you have to respect the position even if you don’t respect the person.
July 31st, 2007 at 1:02 pm
Shane,
Unfortunately the military is an excellent case study for this, as you well know. There it’s the same way, except instead of age it’s rank. I suppose there could be some benefit because, in theory, the more competent get promoted to a higher rank regardless of age. However, rank doesn’t necessarily come from merit, as I’m sure many NCOs would tell you. ^_^
July 31st, 2007 at 8:10 pm
I’m reminded of one of my favorite adages regarding age …
“Do you know how old I will be by the time I learn to _______?”
“Yes. The same age you will be if you don’t.”